Paul has taught us to ask 4 questions so far:
- How does this decision affect your relationship with Christ?
- Will this decision lead you into bondage?
- How will this decision impact other Christians?
- Will others be spiritual impaired by this decision?
Can This Decision Become an Evangelistic Opportunity? Paul writes, " I try to please everyone in everything I do, not seeking my own advantage, but that of many, that they may be saved." Should we be doing this, that or the other thing in a way where people dishonor the Gospel?
Now we know that the Gospel is an offense to some. The simple idea that there is one way to the Father; that we are sinners and unable to help ourselves; that we are saved by mercy, nothing good in ourselves – is offensive to many people. But Christians can also do things that bring a bad repute on the Gospel, that is not part of the Gospel message. Paul alludes to this in Colossians 4:5–6 (ESV),
5 Walk in wisdom toward outsiders, making the best use of the time. 6 Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person.
There is a lifestyle that proves to be wise in relation to unbelievers. Peter taught that for people married. There is a certain demeanor and approach to life that “. . . they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives,” (1 Peter 3:1, ESV). Now when our conduct is such that it detracts from the Gospel and fails to be winsome to the unsaved, we need to consider changes.
I think you'd be surprised by some of the responses by some people. Many years ago I went into a senior's facility and they were playing a game that involved a small amount of betting. Right away someone (a person I did not know to be a Christian) said, "Oh here's the pastor and we are gambling." There is an expectation among non-Christians that we might overlook. Just recently I was playing cribbage with a man in my church. A couple came in the home who are not believers and said, "Hope you're not gambling!"
Now these illustrations relate to cards and gambling. I don't want to make that the issue. The question we need to wrestle with is this: Will my choice make it easier or harder to win the unsaved to saving knowledge of Christ?
There is one final question to deal with.
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