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Friday, February 19, 2016

Those Who Are Married Should Live Like They're Not! Part 3

The passage that I am expounding is 1 Corinthians 7:29–31 (ESV),

29 This is what I mean, brothers: the appointed time has grown very short. From now on, let those who have wives live as though they had none, 30 and those who mourn as though they were not mourning, and those who rejoice as though they were not rejoicing, and those who buy as though they had no goods, 31 and those who deal with the world as though they had no dealings with it. For the present form of this world is passing away.

This is the third installment in this series.  The first Blog identified the issue.  The second Blog was intended to paint a picture of the context.   So based upon the days we live in; and based upon the fact that we have an accurate assessment of those days and how they will end, Paul calls married couples (and singles, by the way) to live a certain way.  He starts with this bridge: "from now on."


. . . From now on . . .

With that precondition in place then Paul establishes a principle of living that one might argue did not previously exist, but certainly does now.  It is here he writes five problematic statements.

let those who have wives live as though they had none, 30 and
those who mourn as though they were not mourning, and
those who rejoice as though they were not rejoicing, and
those who buy as though they had no goods, 31 and
those who deal with the world as though they had no dealings with it.

Aside from the obvious and seemingly contradictory recommendations regarding marriage in the opening stanza, it is important to consider all these five statements as a whole.  They are clearly unique and identifiable in structure. “The verses are replete with rhetorical devices. In the Greek of vv. 29b–30a, each clause begins and ends with the same word (the rhetorician’s symplectic—“having,” “mourning,” “rejoicing”). From v. 29b onward, each clause contains an antithesis (“having” and “not having,” “mourning” and “not mourning” etc.). There is a heaping up of the conjunction (“and … and … and,” etc.); use of paranomasis (deal and no dealings in v. 31 belong to the same word-stem, but are assigned separate meanings), and rhythm (e.g., dactylic tetrameter in vv. 29b and 30a). [1]

Fee is correct when he observes: “Taken literally, the five “as if not” clauses become absurdities, not to mention contradictory to what Paul clearly said earlier about marriage (vv. 2–6) and what he will elsewhere say about sorrowing and rejoicing (Rom. 12:15). But they are not to be taken literally; this is rhetoric, pure and simple.”[2]  R.L. Pratt agrees.  He writes of Paul: “his poetry followed the patterns of parallelism found in Old Testament poetry. Because this material is poetic, it is not surprising to find that the apostle spoke in hyperbole.”[3]

Observing the poetic message using two opposite ways of thinking we need to consider what Paul is teaching through this medium.  In my paraphrase it appears as if Paul is saying, now that you know that we are in the beginning of the end and we know that these days are difficult, married couples should now live differently.

      ·         We live in the world but not of the world.
      ·         We live attached to the world but detached.
      ·         We live in bondage to this fleshly existence, yet live free.
      ·         We live connected to temporal things, but not in bondage to them.

“Those who buy are to do so “as if not” in terms of possessing anything. The eschatological person “has nothing, yet possesses all things” (2 Cor. 6:10; cf. 1 Cor. 3:22).[4] The theology of the New Testament is that we live as residents of this earth, but citizens of heaven (Philippians 3:20).   We live as people who . . . seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God.” (Colossians 3:1, ESV).  Because of our union with Christ in His death, burial and resurrection, we “Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth.” (Colossians 3:2, ESV).    We live as God’s people: already, but not yet; or to put it in the order of Paul’s poetic impression: Those that are here on earth, live as if they aren’t.   Or as Fee states so well: “those who follow (as disciples of) the risen Christ are marked by eternity; therefore, they are not under the dominating power of the circumstances or conditions that dictate the existence of others.”[5]

The Biblical mindset describes the dialectic between love for Christ and love for even spouses and family that it only can be described as “the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.” (Isaiah 55:9, ESV).  This immeasurable distance between human affection and the call to “. . . love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength’” (Mark 12:30, ESV), described by our Lord in love/hate language.

Jesus said, ““If anyone comes to me and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple.” (Luke 14:26, ESV).  One would surmise that Paul, following the hyperbolic example of his Master is saying a similar thing.  

Hypothetically, our devotion to Christ ought to be so intense and pure that our spouses question whether or not we indeed love them at all!   Practically speaking though this would never occur.  The truth is that if we indeed love Christ as we ought, our love for our spouses and family will increase and intensify in direct proportion.  “Therefore do not be anxious, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” (Matthew 6:31–33, ESV)

In the final Blog in this series, I want to try to apply this.




[1] Harrisville, R. A. (1987). I Corinthians (p. 123). Minneapolis, MN: Augsburg Publishing House.
[2] Fee, G. D. (2014). The First Epistle to the Corinthians. (N. B. Stonehouse, F. F. Bruce, G. D. Fee, & J. B. Green, Eds.) (Revised Edition., p. 375). Grand Rapids, MI; Cambridge, U.K.: William B. Eerdmans Publishing Company.
[3] Pratt, R. L., Jr. (2000). I & II Corinthians (Vol. 7, p. 121). Nashville, TN: Broadman & Holman Publishers.
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[4] Fee, G. D. (2014). The First Epistle to the Corinthians. (N. B. Stonehouse, F. F. Bruce, G. D. Fee, & J. B. Green, Eds.) (Revised Edition., pp. 376–377). Grand Rapids, MI; Cambridge, U.K.: William B. Eerdmans Publishing Company.
[5] Fee, G. D. (2014). The First Epistle to the Corinthians. (N. B. Stonehouse, F. F. Bruce, G. D. Fee, & J. B. Green, Eds.) (Revised Edition., pp. 375–376). Grand Rapids, MI; Cambridge, U.K.: William B. Eerdmans Publishing Company.

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