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Friday, June 5, 2015

A Fresh Look At Anger

This is one of the most insightful discussions about anger.  It explains why it is right for God to be angry.  It explains why it is right for us to be angry.  It also explains why it can be wrong to be angry.  Jonathan Parnell[1] handles this topic is a biblical and helpful way.

“Anger makes the list of the seven deadly sins because for centuries people have witnessed its destructive power and influence. Understanding anger gets much more complicated than simply looking at its effects, though. Anger isn’t merely a sin that causes chaos, it’s an emotion that is indicative of something deeper— something in the subconscious desires of the human heart.”

“We might assume that the opposite of anger is love, but actually, the opposite of anger is indifference.“ In its uncorrupted origin,” explains Tim Keller,“ anger is actually a form of love.” Anger is how we respond to whatever threatens someone or something we care about. How we perceive and respond to reality has to do with what we value. Anger is love in motion to protect the object of our love. If we want to know what we have to be angry about, we should look to the objects of our affection. And if we want to know when anger is sinful, we look for how our loves have become distorted.” [Emphasis Mine]

“Interrogating our affections is the best way to mute misplaced aggression.”

“The antidote to anger isn’t placid Stoicism or cool indifference; it’s loving like crazy what is most loveable. The demise of sinful anger starts with our relentless pursuit to be enthralled by God— to be overcome with him, and then to be moved by him to value all that he values.”

Anger is how we react to the vulnerabilities of what we love. Certain things and people we love are of such value, anger is the appropriate emotion.  But some things we love are insignificant in the realm of eternal reality.  Anger in such cases is sin because it portrays our idolatry.

Killjoys is free in e-book from Desiring God.  Go to http://www.desiringgod.org/articles/killjoys-new-book




[1] Desiring God. Killjoys: The Seven Deadly Sins, Desiring God.

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